I attended a Christian wedding under hurriedly preparation. The bride and groom's face filled with happiness and excitement although the ceremony was very simple. It seems have been completed what a marriage needs to be done after i saw them promised to each other, caught up an evidence of a marriage in each other's left ring finger and signed a marrige certificate.But ,how many people know that life after marriage is the focal point.The marriage ceremony just likes to announce to everyone that i finally have a partner to organize a new family.Then welcome to celebrate it and have fun together.
I still single and not in relationship yet so i am not suitable to talk about marriage.But, my two married colleagues had enrich my sight of this area. One of them was getting married at my age now.At present, she has a three years old daughter. This should be very happy. However, in the office i frequently heard complaints about her life.Sometimes we have quarrel among our friends,moreover two people live together under one roof?When two people enter the marriage life, slowly will find the most realistic aspect of each other.Don't we like a person including accept his shortcomings too?Do not worry, do not avoid his shortcomings, but have to face together.1+1=2, and I believe that this 2 can have sufficient strength to improve his weaknesses.
Each time, she said her husband seemed to have an affair. I cannot deny and cannot ensure on it.But i know marriage requires trust.If either party has lost confidence, speculation will be piled up.Originally the facts is not like this, but because of the misunderstanding and let each other apart.Therefore, husband and wife is good to have a proper communication to discuss all the things encountered in the day.And please dont take "I do not want to worry about the other side" be an excuse which may make your partner cranky.So, frankness is very important.Be honest to say, whether it is sweet or bitter, just talk about all.We together because of love.Of course, we should face together,sharing weal and woe because of our love too.
However, her arrogant and stubborn personality is the reason for grounding our discourse.I and another colleague persuaded a lot, but she still insisted on her own thoughts and do not want to make any improvement.Marriage is a big project in life. We should constantly look for good degree of knowledge of marital life.Who says that after marriage can not be as sweet as in love? Who says that after marriage can not be fantastic as in love?As long as we are willing to improve, changing to another point of view, and willing to work together, we sure can change our own marriage. So, I hope my colleague can understand this point.
At the same time, i also want congratulate to the bride and groom, Happy wedding and wish both of you happy to spend in two of the world. Of course, another story of a colleague will be adjourn to the next issue.